tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6923869119326070868.post8834487976269597478..comments2011-03-13T09:58:04.736+08:00Comments on auntidasthots: Of making and breaking promisesAUNTIDAhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16088881538449458973noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6923869119326070868.post-54736394555308804172008-02-15T13:46:00.000+08:002008-02-15T13:46:00.000+08:00in my professional capacity, i am trained to entan...in my professional capacity, i am trained to entangled complicated, highly intergrated issues and developments into simple forms. thus, i try to apply the same principle to life. <BR/><BR/>how i see takliq? it is a necessary but not a sufficient condition to some, and it may not even be necessary nor sufficient to others:<BR/><BR/>(1) necessary since it facilitates woman to get out of marriage when conditions she perceived unconducive for her to stay in a marriage prevails.<BR/><BR/>(2) not sufficient cause it does not guarantee an outcome that she specify in the takliq to take place.<BR/><BR/>when one enters a marriage, we have equal probabilities of screwing it or getting it right. what's important is to juggle situations to get the odds on the side that we want.<BR/><BR/>legal and binding contracts help facilitate an outcome, but does not shape the outcome.<BR/><BR/>i have more to say, but i dont have a blog and this comment box may not be enough.<BR/><BR/>anyway, kudos to auntie for making the blog more colorful, as in not just having to look at kaki montel, but also, initiating some thoughts processes on my part.<BR/><BR/>muaahhhhh!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6923869119326070868.post-64138974466565358392008-02-15T09:52:00.000+08:002008-02-15T09:52:00.000+08:00err...this is your loving brother...i didn't get i...err...this is your loving brother...<BR/><BR/>i didn't get it. <BR/><BR/>of course because i'm the reserved and the nincompoopest among the siblings. help me with the "my kecintaan" and the ta'liq thingy. pwease...<BR/><BR/>god bless...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6923869119326070868.post-57932292380503140372008-02-14T15:13:00.000+08:002008-02-14T15:13:00.000+08:00Way to go woman! Am with you - all the wayyyyyyyyy...Way to go woman! Am with you - all the wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!!!!samanthahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00088185997400660772noreply@blogger.com